Namaskar
I want you to know that I honor the light, love, beauty, truth, and kindness within you, and I hope you will do the same for me. Why? Because when we share these things in mutual respect, there is no distance and no difference between us. We are the same! We are one!
We are also alike in the fact that we all long to be free to live without any baggage of animosity and the life-stealer called ‘unforgiveness’.
The great news, is that you can—you can be free from all those things! As a spiritual life coach, I can guide you through the process (a process I’ve been through, myself) of addressing the issues in your life that prevent you from experiencing the joys of sustained permanent behavior changes.
These changes have to be made in order for genuine healing to take place. And the truth you embrace first and foremost is that the only out of our pain is through our PAIN!
Let me be the first to congratulate you on your decision to let go of the pain you are experiencing because of unforgiveness. Thank you, also, for trusting me to assist you in doing so.
As we begin this process together, you need to understand that your frame of mind is the key that unlocks the ‘door’ that opens the way to your new and better life. And the truth you need to embrace first and foremost is that…
FORGIVENESS WILL TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE
Forgiveness transforms your life because of its self-protection mechanism qualities. Self-protection is a basic human instinct that releases you from the grip of pain from past experiences.
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Forgiveness is a bondage breaker—and YOU are the one released from bondage.
Forgiveness stops you from the cycle of being victimized repeatedly by the memory of painful experiences from the past.
Forgiveness releases you from the blame-shame-victim ‘game’—a game in which no one wins.
Forgiveness cleanses the toxicity left behind by those who hurt you.
Forgiveness rids your mind of useless believes that block your path to love, confidence, and success.
Forgiveness occurs when you are ready to release yourself from past hurt. All of it!
WHAT IS FORGIVENESS?
Forgiveness is the unconditional recognition of any and all past events in your life
A) even if you don’t understand why the event took place,
B) you were physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually hurt by events of the past,
C) regardless of whether or not the guilty party is held accountable for their actions.
Forgiveness is the intentional decision to overcome the hurt and pain inflicted by others, as well as the hurt and pain we inflict upon ourselves.
Forgiveness is letting go of anger, frustration, resentment, shame, and every other emotion associated with the offense.
Forgiveness is extending compassion to the offender(s) even if you don’t feel they deserve it.
Forgiving is realizing it is not your job to decide upon and administer justice to the one who hurts you, but rather leaving that up to the divine law of sowing what you reap.
Forgiveness is releasing yourself from the past because you know you cannot change it.
WHAT FORGIVENESS IS NOT
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Forgiveness is not condoning or minimizing what had happened, but rather refusing to allow its toxic influence in your life.
Forgiveness is not allowing the past to dictate you mood and behavior.
Forgiving does not require you to repair the relationship with the person or people who hurt you.
